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Dawdling

One of my favourite things to do in Yellowknife is dawdle.

Aiden's school starts at 8:30 and so does my work. From the bottom of the hill they are in opposite directions. So Aiden has decided that in the mornings we should "dawdle" down the hill together. He likes to get to school very early- it has free WiFi away from mom and dad. So we get ready as soon as the CBC hourly news comes on.

Then for the next five minutes we dawdle down the hill. Inevitably we have to stop so he can tie his boots (again). But for five minutes we get to chat and hang out. For as long as I have been a mom I have never walked either of my kids to school, so this is a new experience. And it is great. We talk about how the light is changing, what the weather is like and which classes he has that day.

Before you know it we are at the bottom of the hill and he is going one way and I am going the other. Aiden is in grade 10 so I only have three years left where he is home. If leaving 15 minutes early means I gain 5 minutes with him it is time well wasted.

I am hoping next year Owen will join in too. (Right now he leaves at 7:30 to catch a bus for school.) Since we don't know where we will be living, I may not get the chance to keep this up. So I am grateful everyday for the time I get to spend with my son.

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